TTC after a Loss

WHEN WE EXPERIENCE A PREGNANCY LOSS AT ANY STAGE THERE IS GRIEF.

HOWEVER, THE HUMAN SPIRIT DOESN’T WANT TO GIVE UP AND WE MOVE INTO THE NEXT PHASE OF OUR FERTILITY.

Jennifer HeptonJuly 29, 2019pregnancy loss, pregnancy loss support, still birth, stillborn, pregnancy coaching, TTC, ttc after loss, babyloss, babylosssupport, ivf, grief coaching, grieving mom, life coach, PREGNANT AFTER LOSS, miscarriage support, miscarriage, miscarriage awareness Comment

Finding your RETREAT

Let’s start by asking ….

Do you have a retreat?

Do you have your special, calming space where you are able to retreat, restore and refresh when the world gets too crazy and overwhelming?

Having a place where you find comfort when your grief gets too much is important in our healing process.

WHY?

Our minds and nervous system needs a break so that it can restore and fight another day. If we don’t have that, we will stress our adrenals and feel ill.

Jennifer HeptonJuly 15, 2019baby loss, babylosssupport, stillbirth, stillborn, pregnancy after loss, TTC, grief coaching, GRIEF COACHING, life coaching, pregnant after loss, pregnancy loss support, pregnancy loss support groups, group coaching for pregnancy after loss, ttc after loss, trying to get pregnant after miscarriage, miscarriage, miscarriage support

EMOTIONS. SO MANY FREAKING EMOTIONS.

I REMEMBER WHEN I WAS PREGNANT AFTER LOSING OUR TWINS THAT ALL I WANTED TO FEEL WAS HAPPY BUT COULDN’T.

I REMEMBER I TOLD MYSELF THAT THIS IS IT AND THIS IS OUR RAINBOW BABY. I EVEN WENT OUT TO BUY A BIB AND I WAS PLANNING ON TELLING MY HUSBAND THAT EVENING. SADLY, I MISCARRIED THAT NIGHT AND I HAD TO HIDE THE BIB AND TOLD MY HUSBAND A DIFFERENT STORY.

Jennifer HeptonJuly 6, 2019pregnancy after loss, TTC, miscarriage awareness, miscarriage support, stillbirth, stilborn, infertility, pregnancy coaching, emotions, grief, loss, life after loss, life coach, mindset coach, support for pregnancy loss Comment

Getting Pregnant After Loss

Those words are full of so many emotions.

Thinking about trying again can be full of guilt, sadness and joy.

We want to be able to think about a beautiful baby in our arms, but after baby loss we don’t have the luxury of not knowing what could happen.

I remember after losing our twins, I was incredibly anxious about getting pregnant again.

The doctors, my family and even my husband kept reassuring me that it would be okay to start again.

So, we did and we tried IUI, IVF and the old fashion way of having sex on those 2 days.

Jennifer HeptonOctober 7, 2018pregnancy after loss, TTC, infant loss, baby loss, infertility, infertilitysucks Comment